Change has been studied by many but mastered by none.  It is often viewed as a set of factors outside your control, and how one reacts to these factors is largely understood as being a function of one's personality, circumstances and destiny.

At Startover, we believe that more than half the battle of mastering change lies in a fundamental premise that transcends change, which is that change is essentially controllable.  Granted, the external factors that promote change are often "givens"--they are like a hand in a game of poker.  But how you play them, and whether you wish to play or fold, are deliberate choices you make.

I urge you to mingle in the Startover community, and derive knowledge and joy from meeting others going through similar or even very different situations from yours.  Write to us and let us know what you think.  We look forward to seeing you more often on Startover!!

Srini
New York
May 2009